By: JoAnn Cranson
Disappointment, Discouragement and Depression. In these trying times, it’s pretty normal to be feeling the 3 D’s.
Many of us are experiencing disappointment right now, whether its a canceled trip, all races stopped, graduation, weddings, parties, work layoffs, and get togethers halted. In my thoughts I think to myself it’s silly to be so disappointed over a race or my plans that have been changed, but we need to let ourselves feel the disappointment so we can get beyond it. Give someone a call that you know who understands how sad you are about a race canceled or another activity that you practiced for all year that isn’t going to happen, we need to express ourselves and let our sadness out. Once that is done, then it’s time to move upward and onward.
But then discouragement seeps in. Why should I continue to train hard or practice for a goal that may never happen this year? What do I have to work toward? I don’t even know when this is going to end. It’s the unknown that can lead us to be discouraged to move forward. I think it’s a normal feeling, but we need to look for other ways to stay motivated. I’ve always wanted more time to work on my techniques and improve my form on the bike and running. Really the best time to focus on this is when you are alone and can really think about what you are doing. Well…. that time is now.
I’m planning to have one of my family members video me on my stationary bike or outside in the front, side and back of me so I can see my position, look at my form, pedal stroke,etc. Then I’ll send the video to my coach or if you have an experienced rider or mentor to view and see if they have suggestions for you. The same with running form. Check out this link to get custom help remotely on your running. https://www.athleticmentors.com/endurance/running/custom-run-coaching/
There are also various training programs that you can sign up for on the Athletic Mentors website to feel the motivation of live training right now, check it out. https://www.athleticmentors.com/live-workout-remote-wellness-coaching-package/
Maybe you always wanted to learn to play a different instrument or language. There are so many online lessons now to take advantage of. Give yourself some fresh things to look forward to.
Last, as time goes on and you are more alone, depression can creep up on you. Well Fight It! Get outside and take in the fresh air. Be active in walking, hiking, biking, running, skipping, jumping, whatever you want to do. Get off your phone or computer or out from in front of your TV to stimulate your brain by doing puzzles, cleaning closets, painting something you’ve been meaning to spruce up. Better yet, think of something you can do to encourage your neighbor, friend or family member without coming in contact with them. Set up new routines that keep you moving and stimulated.
The unknown can be scary and unsettling, but don’t let it get the best of you. We all have so many things to be thankful for. This is just a moment in time that we all need to be patient and work through in our own way. Give yourself a break to feel the 3 D’s, just don’t live in them.